Seduction Fundamentals: 8 Tips To Get More
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Meg Krein, MS |
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It’s no secret that most women hold the key when it comes to sex and it’s also no secret that most men want to unlock it. Well guys, forget the damn key. Below are eight ways that will have you looking like Houdini in no time:
1. Use Your Gentlemanly Ways: There’s a reason why acting like a gentleman always wins out in the end. It works. So the next time you’re out with your girl open the car door for her, and if you notice she’s chilly take off your coat and offer it to her. I promise she’ll take off a little more for you next time.
2. Act Like A Man: And by that I mean, take control. This is how it was meant to be, you know in primitive times. And as much as some women hate to admit it, they love it. Few things make us want to give all of us you, more than you taking the lead and planning our evening together. So when you call her, don’t make her do the work for your date. Let her know what time you’ll be there and where you’d like to take her. She’ll show her appreciation later.
3. Get a Life: As much as we say we want you all to ourselves, we don’t. I mean, we really want to share you with your friends. There’s no bigger turn-off than a man who can’t function alone. Codependency is a sickness. So go play rugby with the guys, volunteer on the weekend as a BigBrother, go on that business trip, take an art class; we’ll be eagerly waiting for you – in bed.
4. Be a Sweet Talker: Tell her she’s beautiful, smart, sexy, and everything you’ve ever wanted – and mean it. Most women can sniff out a phony.
5. Keep Secrets: No woman likes a man with a Texas sized ego – it screams insecurity. We find it much more impressive and irresistible when you let it ‘slip’ that you graduated from Harvard or take your mom to brunch every Sunday. So be modest, and we won’t.
6. Don’t Always Be the Giver: Remember when your parents made you get a job so you could learn the value of and appreciate money? Well, relationships with women are kind of the same. If you do everything for her, she’s not going to appreciate you or the sex. So, don’t. After all, relationships are about the give and take. So on occasion let her cook you dinner, pick you up, or rent the movie.
7. Take it Slow: Brush your hand against her cheek after a gentle kiss, or cup her face in your hands while you tell her something very intimate. She’ll melt right into your sheets.
8. Be a Smarty Pants: Seriously, it’s hard to resist a man with a strong vocabulary. So say something witty, discuss the novel you just finished, or rant about the latest article you read in The New York Times. Her clothes will have dropped to the floor before you’re done uttering the word, ‘licentious’.
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